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Writer's pictureTolu Adeleke

Self-Care Tips for Pregnant Mums During the Busy Holiday Season



The holiday season is a magical time filled with joy, celebrations and plenty of indulgent treats. However, if you’re an expectant mum, it can also be a season of exhaustion, stress, and endless to-do lists. Between family gatherings, shopping sprees and festive feasts, it’s easy to get swept up in the hustle and forget about your own well-being.


But let’s get one thing straight, you deserve to enjoy this time as much as anyone else. In fact, as a mum-to-be, prioritising self-care is not just a luxury; it’s a necessity. So, grab a cup of decaf tea, put your feet up and let’s explore some simple and effective ways to look after yourself during the holiday madness.


1. Embrace the Art of Saying ‘No’

The holidays are synonymous with invitations, parties, family dinners, work events….. the list goes on. While it’s lovely to be included, it’s also perfectly acceptable to decline invitations. Pregnancy is exhausting, and there’s no need to feel guilty for prioritising rest over social obligations.


Tip: Practise polite but firm responses. For example, “Thank you so much for inviting me, but I need to take it easy this year. I’d love to catch up in the New Year instead.”

Remember, saying ‘no’ isn’t selfish; it’s self-preservation and self-full.


2. Schedule ‘Me Time’ (and Actually Stick to It)

When you’re pregnant, your body is working overtime to grow a tiny human. That’s no small feat! Make sure you carve out time each day for activities that help you relax and recharge.

Whether it’s reading a book, enjoying a warm (not too hot!) bath, meditating, or even sneaking in an afternoon nap, prioritising rest is essential.


Tip: Block out this time in your calendar as if it’s an important meeting because it is!


3. Snack Smart and Stay Hydrated

The holidays are notorious for tempting treats and endless buffets. While there’s nothing wrong with indulging a little, it’s important to balance those festive nibbles with nutritious snacks that keep your energy up and nausea at bay.


Pregnancy-friendly snacks:

              •            Sliced fruit with nut butter

              •            Greek yoghurt with honey

              •            Whole-grain crackers with hummus

              •            Almonds and dried apricots


Don’t forget to hydrate! Carry a reusable water bottle to remind yourself to sip throughout the day. Herbal teas and sparkling water with a slice of lemon can also help you feel refreshed.


4. Delegate Like a Boss

You may feel the urge to be a Superwoman, but pregnancy is the perfect excuse to step back and let others help. Whether it’s asking your partner to wrap gifts, having groceries delivered or delegating cooking duties to family members, don’t hesitate to share the load.


Tip: Create a checklist of tasks and assign them to specific people. It’ll save you time and reduce stress when everyone knows what’s expected of them.


5. Prioritise Comfortable Clothing

Holiday parties often come with the expectation of glamorous outfits and high heels. But when you’re pregnant, comfort trumps fashion every single time. Invest in a few festive maternity outfits that make you feel fabulous without compromising on comfort. Think stretchy dresses, flowy tops and cosy cardigans paired with flat shoes or boots.


Tip: Accessorise with statement jewellery or a bold lipstick to elevate your look effortlessly.


6. Protect Your Sleep Like It’s Sacred

Pregnancy can already make sleep tricky thanks to midnight bathroom trips, backaches, and a baby who thinks your bladder is a trampoline. Add late-night parties and early-morning festivities to the mix and it’s no wonder you’re running on fumes.


Sleep tips for pregnant mums:

              •            Use extra pillows to support your back and bump.

              •            Stick to a bedtime routine to signal to your body that it’s time to wind down.

              •            Avoid caffeine and heavy meals late in the day.

If naps are your thing, don’t hesitate to sneak in a quick snooze whenever you can.


7. Be Mindful of Overcommitment

The holidays tend to come with high expectations from decorating the house and hosting gatherings to finding the perfect gifts and much more. But pregnancy is not the time to overdo it.


Instead of trying to do everything, focus on what truly matters to you. Maybe that means skipping the elaborate Christmas feast and opting for a potluck instead or replacing gift exchanges with a Secret Santa to cut down on shopping stress.


Tip: Simplify wherever possible. Online shopping and gift-wrapping services can be lifesavers!


8. Move Your Body (But Don’t Overdo It)

Exercise during pregnancy can boost your mood, improve circulation and ease aches and pains. However, during the busy holiday season, it’s easy to neglect physical activity in favour of lounging on the sofa.


Try incorporating gentle exercises like prenatal yoga, walking or swimming into your routine. These activities not only keep you fit but also help with relaxation.


Tip: If you’re pressed for time, even a 10-minute walk around the block can work wonders.


9. Manage Stress with Mindfulness

The holidays can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially if you’re juggling hormonal changes and holiday chaos. Practising mindfulness can help you stay calm and grounded.

Mindfulness techniques:

              •            Deep breathing exercises

              •            Guided meditation apps

              •            Journaling your thoughts and feelings

Taking even five minutes a day to focus on your breath can make a world of difference.


10. Celebrate the "Little" Moments

Amidst the holiday bustle, don’t forget to savour the special moments—feeling your baby kick for the first time, decorating the nursery or simply enjoying quiet evenings with your partner.


Pregnancy during the holidays gives you a unique opportunity to slow down and truly appreciate this transformative time in your life.


Tip: Start a holiday or pregnancy journal or scrapbook to capture memories you can share with your baby in the future.


Being pregnant during the holidays doesn’t mean you have to miss out on the fun. With a bit of planning and a lot of self-care, you can navigate the season feeling relaxed, radiant and ready to welcome your little one. So, take that extra slice of cake, put your feet up and let others pamper you. After all, you’re already working hard on the best gift of all!


Wishing you a joyful, restful and magical holiday season!

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